Relationships [and related things]

[xAngelPromisex]

I would say, just give him space. I'm sure he knows that if he wants someone to talk to, he can talk to you. Don't push him to talk to you, he knows where you are. And like Amiee said, everyone deals with these things in their own way.

[turner]

I have a boyfriend now, amidst my tangle of casual sex.

[NaomiOfC]

yh, i went out last night & found out that 3 years ago, he was in love with this girl called Jazz, but she went out with this guy called matt & is still with him. 2 weeks ago when he went away to wales, he told jazz that he was still in love with her.

i found this out through nat who was told by matt (andy said this in front of matt as well as jazz) & i felt broken. like, ugh. i wonder if he used me to hide/forget his feelings for jazz & then lied to me as to why he broke up with me. ugh ugh ugh.

[turner]

Yeah he probably did. You're better without him anyway, you deserve someone who loves you for you.

[NaomiOfC]

yh, i'm an annoyed with about it because i told him about my past & ex-boyfriends & he promised he wouldn't be like them but he was like, all of them in one. when i next see them all (probs in 3 weeks time) i'll have to have words with him about it or something.

but, a couple of weeks ago when i was at the Mash Up, i spent a lot of the night with this guy called Jordan. i was drunk & after talking to andy i felt upset by his words & jordan was like, cuddling me & comforting me & making sure i was okay & the next thing i know is we're kissing & now i have feelings for him >.< & my best friend told me that she was talking to him one night on fb & he was asking about me lskdj >.< but he doesn't come out with us that much cuz he doesn't live in Ashbourne

[Amiee♥TH]

Maybe you should confront him about it Nom instead of just going by what people have told you, you know it could have got twisted accidently by the ones who told you?
Sounds like you fall for guys really quick by the way.

[NaomiOfC]

they might've done. me & andy need a good chat when we're both free & not consuming alcohol.

i do sometimes, but it all depends. with jordan, idk. we've met a few times now & we've gotten on so well it's unreal & i don't know, but there's just something there between us & i'm not the only one who's spotted it. but idk, jordan is a great friend of mine & i just enjoy spending time with him.

[stephnehh]

aahhhhhh work babeness!

so last sunday i was just finishing work and i got upstairs and as i was going to put the phone away, the babe came out of the guys locker room and went to sign out and waited there as i went to my locker and got my stuff and we walked down the stairs together.

& a few days ago, he commented on my facebook for like the first time ever, so i had a total heart attack, but it was awesome because we got a little conversation going about our colourful hair and i even got kisses on the end of the comments, pahaha. how pathetic do i sound...im so sorry!

but yeah, at work at the weekend i was kneeling at this little cupboard thing and looked up and he was totally running over with his face all lit up and smiley like
‘ohmygod look! i did my hair that bright yellow i told you about!’
so i was like ‘omg wow it’s awesome! i like it’
and he was like ‘it’s so bright! haha but wow i’m loving your purple, all the different shades are really nice ’
and i was like, still kneeling on the ground staring up at him… ’aww thankyou! it’s kinda pink cuz i couldn’t get all the red out though ‘
& he was like ‘aww but it’s all good! it looks nice ’
then he went to go and i was like ‘you too! you’ll need to tell me what it’s like when it’s all UV and stuff!’
so he was like ‘ah yeah! i can’t wait! anyway seeeee yaaaaa! ’

right so i know this REALLY isn't important at all and i'm sorry for always posting about it, but he's insanely hot so i'm always way too like 'omg yay?!' about it haha.

[Amiee♥TH]

For once in my lifetime, I actually have something to say in here... Haha.
Basically, I went out on Friday night with a couple of friends and met up with a guy that I've been texting ect, knowing full well that he had a girlfriend so I had no intention of liking him or whatever and wasn't attracted to him but then he ended up kissing me at the end of the night and coming back to my friends house with us and spent the night with me (nothing more than kissing, I assure you). He said him and his gf were breaking up because she's going to uni in a couple of weeks and I think he's pretty much expecting me to jump into some sort of a relationship with him even though I don't know if him and his gf are properly split up or whatever and I'm not sure what to do about it because I know I'll be the one getting hurt if they decide they don't want to split up after all :S and he basically cheated on her with me :S

[liz]

That's a difficult one Amiee. I mean, it might be true that they're breaking up. If a relationship isn't really serious, some couples do mutually decide to call it a day when they go off to Uni and stuff. It's not always realistic to keep going if you don't plan on being a long term couple. (as long as she knows that they're over, and it's not just his take on the situation, lol)

BUT ... you're right, he did cheat on her if they haven't 'officially' broken up.

I think if I was in your situation I'd just wait and see what happens. Don't do anything with him until you feel you can believe that they've really broken up. And if you never can - they I don't advise getting involved with someone you suspect is a liar!

If you really like him, spend time with him as a friend and just see where it takes you. If he likes you back, he'll wait until you feel comfortable.

Trying it on while he still has a girlfriend, does make him a bit of a douche .... but in the real world people make mistakes. Especially if they like someone. Lay down some terms and make him wait. If he genuinely likes you, he will

[Amiee♥TH]

Yeah, you're right Liz. He's been inviting me out ect and I told him this evening that I'm not comfortable until his girlfriend has gone to uni and they're no longer properly together and he seemed okay with that and 'seemed' to understand why'd I'd said it.
I'll keep you updated!

It'd be nice for it to work out though I suppose You know, me being a whinge bag and all!

[NaomiOfC]

it's not me, but my two of my friends have been dating for 3 years & they went on a break the other day. i found out when i got back yesterday & yh. 2 months ago at a house party, shit went down & me & my best friend have tried to sort it out but she won't have it. when we met up before i went away, it was awkward. her boyfriend came back & said "she told she made it awkward on purpose." he then told us yesterday to forget about her. she's going to uni soon so they may not get back together but apparantly they broke up cuz she brought up the whole situation blah blah blah so i feel bad about it right now :/

[NaomiOfC]

when you find out that the guy you like likes you is the best thing.

we were sat talking last night & matt goes "so naomi, what do you think of jordan?" & i was like "well he's the type of guy i usually go for & yh" & then natalie was like "matt, what does jordan think of naomi?" & then matt went bright red & we kept pushing him for the answer & he goes "he likes her. he just wants to get to know her a bit more" ;D

[Amiee♥TH]

Aw!

I'm surrounded by lovely dovey stuff, seems like everyone has someone interested in them or they're in a relationship, except me. Lonely times!

[xAngelPromisex]

You're not alone Amiee I'm not in a relationship and as far as i know, no one is interested with me. Well, apart from the waiter at the Pizza Hut i went to with Alisa when she was here who asked for my number, but that was just creepy