|
|
Post by Mika on Feb 19, 2008 10:49:49 GMT 1
Someone, somewhere must have a good relationship!
|
|
|
|
Post by hellfirejen on Feb 19, 2008 12:05:35 GMT 1
My new ones going pretty good, but its only been going a matter of days haha. Actually, his ex is causing major problems, they were only together for two months n broke up back in June, just started speaking again lately n she apparently wanted him back and is now really angry cos I got there first. She's started stalking my Myspace and she's in her 30's! Grow up! haha.
First relationship was for 2 years, known him about 3 months before we got together, he was a paranoid depressive and when I tried to break up with him he banged his head against a wall and started screaming.
Second one: lasted year and a half, known him 5 days haha, his sister was ace, he was an idiot, he once burst into tears because he "didnt want to go blind cos then he'd never see anything again". we were like 19 at the time and i was like, whaaaa? Never gave me any space either, had to run off with another bloke to make him understand it was over!
Third one lasted just short of 2 years. Met at Download, got on really well as mates, but no good as a couple, started off great but he completely broke me, never introduced me to his mates, acted like he was embarrassed to be with me, turned me into this self hating unconfident person. i ended it, and was in pieces for months, that was the first real heartbreak i felt.
Now, with Liam, he's ace, known me for years so he's been there through a lot and all the crap from the last ex, we've both kinda liked each other at some point during our friendship but didnt want to ruin anything. Living togethers kinda scary for me, but we have our own rooms so we still have space and i dont need to be paranoid with him cos i know he would never hurt me.
Okay, that was a lot longer than I thought it would be! haha
Jen
xxx
|
|
|
|
Post by julia on Feb 19, 2008 13:00:58 GMT 1
My relationship (gawd i hate that word) is pretty good too!
Urmm...
Otherwise... got seriously confused about whether is was girls/boys for me last year, but came out straight at the end of it.
Last year was not a good year for me =/
xx
|
|
|
|
Post by HomosexualGuitar on Feb 19, 2008 14:29:42 GMT 1
I don't see the point in sexuality labels. Everyone is like 'are you gay/straight/bi?' all the time for me. And I have no idea how to answer them. I like who I like, and I don't really bother if they're a girl or a guy. If I had to label myself, I'm pansexual.
Yeah, had to just say that =P
Kraig-x
|
|
|
|
Post by -kels- on Feb 19, 2008 14:50:21 GMT 1
and right you are Kraig.
I mean, if you asked someone that and they didnt give the answer you wanted would you not be friends with that person?
I find asking that is quite pointless =/
|
|
|
|
Post by tokiohoteluk on Feb 19, 2008 16:47:23 GMT 1
I'm curious about sexuality in general and I can't stand labels either. I'm not bi as so far I have exclusively been attracted to men, but that doesn't mean I haven't messed around with girls a little. A little bit of alcohol and I'm anyone's...seriously. LOL. I think we're lucky in the UK now. There's a much more accepting atmosphere in general for experimenting sexually and I think young people should embrace that and take time to find out what they want and like. Be open. My uncle came out when he was 50 and sadly died when he was 53. He only had 3 years of true happiness because he was scared. There's nothing more scary than a lifetime in the closet, so I always encourage people to be open and experimental to find out what they truly want. Me...I'm a gay man in a woman's body mostly. So I'm straight with extreme peen (it changes p*nis to thingy lmao) envy, a love of gay men and a mild case of gender dysmorphia that I have learned to love. Claire x (You don't want my relationship history, man, but suffice to say I'm single and married to the street team.  ) |
|
|
|
Post by xxxnashxxx on Feb 19, 2008 17:08:20 GMT 1
OK, mine is short hahaha
I don't really do boyfriends or anything unless I think I really really like them. I'm trying to get over this and be a bit more adventurous, but I just cant if someone called me a slag one day I think I would just break down
1st: was head over heels like a love sick puppy, when I found out he was a two timming Wa&&& , and that one ended in a massive drama. His lil brother (Sweet) loved me, and as soon as he heard what he has done came to my house and told me.Then I left a very nasty message on his phone. were 10 mins later I had him on my door screaming it down to high heavens whilst I hid inside. Then he followed me about for like a month
So my first was really my last hahahaah, because since then I assume the worst, which is really stereo typical.. but I just see the idiot side of men, my friends are trying to break me... but I'm stuck in my old ways
since then I have had one "thing" lasted like 3 months tho so a bit crappy, he was also a stalker and was like my owner ... so that was over ... 10 mins after he was getting of with my mate! further cemented believes
|
|
|
|
Post by Mika on Feb 19, 2008 19:03:54 GMT 1
Oh dear, only a select lucky few seem to have things go right for them.
I'm thinking we drag Tom to the UK and enroll in his school of luurrrvve
*grins*
x x x
|
|
|
|
Post by -kels- on Feb 19, 2008 19:07:58 GMT 1
If only.....
*imagines* ;D
|
|
|
|
Post by HomosexualGuitar on Feb 19, 2008 19:25:15 GMT 1
Hah, I think I'd get him to be a bit more open to things }=] It ain't all about the girls you know. Heh.
And sorry to hear about your uncle Claire. At least he actually did come out and got to expereince life before he died. =]
On the note of sexuality, what does everyone class themselves as?
Kraig-x
|
|
|
|
Post by Ecomo on Feb 19, 2008 19:29:04 GMT 1
Ooof, lol that would be awesome.
I'm really not sure what i am. I've been in relationships with both genders =/
I would say i'm pansexual but i can't see myself being in a long term relationship or settling down with a girl. I guess i'm just at the 'experimenting' age. xD
|
|
|
|
Post by liz on Feb 19, 2008 19:54:06 GMT 1
Lol, I`d sign on for 6th form in Tom`s school of luurrvvee!!! And I`d ensure I got plenty of detentions too!!  I really don`t label myself as anything - straight or bi. Although I`ve only had straight relationships, it`s not a closed book in my head. I`ve seen alot of unhappiness in my life, mostly my mum`s, and I know how precious love and happiness is. If / when I meet someone who I can truly share those feelings with, I`ll never let them go. At the moment it feels as though it will be a guy, but if it was a girl who suddenly brightened up my life, I wouldn`t be stupid enough to deny myself or her the chance of happiness. |
|
|
|
Post by -kels- on Feb 19, 2008 20:20:23 GMT 1
Lol, I`d sign on for 6th form in Tom`s school of luurrvvee!!! And I`d ensure I got plenty of detentions too!! YH! same here lol xD and I dont really label myself as anything in particular cos even though I have never had those feelings for a girl, I've never been in a relationship so I dont know lol I think I'm straight.... *trails off* and Liz - what you was sayin about happiness and stuff... I've been through some stuff.. and its kinda made me how I am today in some way =/ |
|
|
|
Post by liz on Feb 19, 2008 20:32:00 GMT 1
I totally understand that. I feel the same. Alot of my friends are always making comments about how `I`ve changed`. But some things do change you. It can`t be helped. I think the most important thing is to try and learn something from all experiences - good or bad. Sounds like a cliche, but if you don`t, then it`s all pointless.  |
|
|
|
Post by -kels- on Feb 19, 2008 20:34:26 GMT 1
I totally understand that. I feel the same. Alot of my friends are always making comments about how `I`ve changed`. But some things do change you. It can`t be helped. I think the most important thing is to try and learn something from all experiences - good or bad. Sounds like a cliche, but if you don`t, then it`s all pointless. Words of wisdom people! its so true... |
|
)
